Need these bad boys in my closet
Lee Young Jun -
A/W 2009 20010
Korean style at its finest.
I don’t know if this has been done…
So there comes a point in anyone’s life where it changes them so deeply and meaningfully that it hurts. I’m talking about relationships, it something many people crave and urn for but sometimes don’t get what they expect. Lately, I’ve been feeling down in the dumps and this could be partly due to the fact that I’m probably homesick. Oh, btw I’m studying and living in Japan until the end of the year. Ok, back to my point, or rant, I don’t know which one it is yet…also because I have been left feeling insecure about my relationship with my current girlfriend purely because of our different cultures. It makes me wonder, how do people from different cultures manage their relationship? why can’t we do the same? then I also wonder, damn I need to get better at Japanese if I want to really make it work. I mean, it’s easier said that done…but what other options do I have? I’m with a gorgeous girl who means the world to me, yet doesn’t like being complicated too much. A girl who cares and loves me, yet has the hot and cold personality. A girl who suffers from emotional instability and self inflicting behaviors, yet doesn’t let me help and support her, instead attacks me.
I am at the point in our relationship where I’m asking myself, is she really worth it? did I really fight for ‘this’ girl? how can I help her? Why does she treat me like shit?
Don’t get me wrong, I love this girl, and I try so hard to make her happy and less stressed yet, it’s not good enough.
Can love really overcome cultural barriers, communication barriers, language barriers? I sure hope so..